We have all been through a harrowing breakup or two, but divorce is different. You can’t just cut the cord and walk away: Often, the breakup is drawn out – as a result, the pain runs deep. Many times, children are involved. Assets need to be split and lives uprooted. It goes without saying that ending a marriage can make you rethink everything you thought you knew about love – and sometimes, even, yourself. But, it shouldn’t prevent you from finding happiness with a new person. 

Before getting back out there,the most important thing to do is address your own recovery. Can you start dating while still going through the divorce, or is there a certain amount of time you should wait? How do you know you’re ready to move on? To answer these questions and offer other post-divorce dating do’s and don’ts, I speak with Carla Stotts, who has been through it all. She shares her experience, how she was able to set non-negotiables for her subsequent relationships, and her biggest regret. If you are thinking of getting back into the dating scene after a divorce, this episode is for you!

In a nutshell, we discuss:

• Changes in the dating scene especially after experiencing marriage
• How to set the foundation of the relationships you get into after divorce and the dynamics involved
• Deciding what to disclose (how much of it and when) to your new partner
• Dealing with your baggage before getting into another relationship
• Introducing your kids to your new partner
• Advice to someone that’s thinking of getting back into the dating scene after divorce
• and so much more!

Connect with Carla:

Website: cmariewaistbeads.com

Instagram: @cmariewaistbeads

Episode drink:

Mexican pomegranate mimosa

Ingredients:

Champagne

Tequila

Orange juice

Pomegranate  juice

Lime juice

A divorce is not an easy thing, and dating afterward isn’t something to take lightly. But with a degree of self-awareness, conscious intention, and a touch of confidence, anyone can find love on the other side.

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